Friday, October 13, 2006
Damn Pissed off!!!
Damn Pissed off!!!
Feeling damn pissed off with Apple..yes, her again..the stupid bitch..maybe shouldn't call her stupid..cuz she actually is quite smart to be able to weave stories and create something from nothing!!!
Heard from my SIL that my MIL related to her that Apple SAID that when I first went over to Vietnam, she COOKED for me EVERYDAY and because she did that, my BIL, seeing her so tired, cooking for us everyday, was kinda "tu lan" and told her not to cook for me (or us, i.e. my hubby & I) anymore. So she didn't cook for one day and Apple CLAIMED that on that particular day, when my hubby came home and realised that Apple didn't cook for me to eat, he threw a black face and was not happy about it!!!!
When I heard it, I almost couldn't believe my ears!!! I really cannot imagine how a person can weave such a story when NOT even ONE part of it is faintly true!!
Firstly, I remembered that my first trip to Vietnam after my no-pay leave took off was ONLY for about 2 weeks, then I came back to Singapore..to verify, you can actually check the dates of my posts in Apr & May period. And I remember distinctly that when I reached Vietnam... in fact, on that very afternoon when I reached the Vietnam home from the Airport, Apple was NOT at home. She was at the casino playing happily away. I m VERY SURE she did not cook that nite. And for the following 2 weeks, she was at the Casino almost everyday gambling away. She would wake up at noon or even later and proceed to the casino and she will stay there past dinner time. Cuz she claimed that there is free food there. Maybe, she did cook once or at most twice in that 2 weeks period, but I can tell you that I m very SURE it was not more than 2 times in the spade of 2 weeks I was there and let me CLARIFY..she did NOT cook specifically for me. She cooked for herself cuz she was hungry and asked me to join in..and I have never expected her to cook for Piggy or me. So if she was thinking that she was cooking for Piggy and me, that's all in her imagination. And just to emphasize, Piggy does not like the food she cooks and she herself clearly told me before that she thinks that Piggy does not like her cooking, cuz he always said he was going out for dinner with his friends whenever she cooked, which is not that often in the first place. So I can't imagine why she told my SIL that Piggy actually likes her food.
I really dunno what she is trying to do, try to create the image that she always cooks and I dun even know how to cook in front of my MIL? I really feel angry cuz what she said makes me look very stupid. As if, I dunno how to go out and buy food or ask the maid to buy for me or even cook maggi mee myself if I m hungry. I m not a 3-yr old kind, for goodness sake. Although I am not the type who has been cooking all my life, I dun think she should make me sound like I am so stupid or lazy or whatever to be waiting for her to cook for me and that I will go hungry if she does not cook for me. And tha FACT is she did NOT cook EVERYDAY for me. Somemore, Apple said that Piggy showed a black face. I really think she should stop assuming things and accusing people, cuz that incident which she related to my MIL did NOT happen at all, not even one bit and Piggy can testify to that!!!! I m truly amazed at and utterly disgusted with her story telling ability!
Although I never really thought well of her, at least Piggy & I never maligned her or told tales about her. And now that we did tell my SIL cuz we found out what she did, every word that we said is true. I really dunno why she is always bad mouthing others. I remembered once, she told me that my BIL said that she always bad mouths others. But then it's true what? If my SIL didn't tell me, I would still be in the dark. And if she can say such things about us, what other tales wouldn't she weave?
Somemore Apple told my MIL that she was a factory worker in Shenzhen before she met my BIL. My foot man!!! Piggy said "factory worker got smoke, have tatoo and go casino everyday one meh?" She clearly told me that she worked in a night club and smoked estacy and went clubbing very often when she was staying in Shenzhen. And just the other day, when she came over to our place, she pretended to talk about her days working at the hospital last time (just cuz my PILs were around) when she clearly told me before that it was her sister or god sister who was working at the hospital and she was glad that she hadn't taken her path, otherwise she would have ended up like her sister, earning S$200 a month!!!
And now, she wants to buy a house jointly with my BIL, claiming that she wants to chip in her money. But she where got money? Everytime, tell me that she didn't have a chance to save a single cent after meeting my BIL. If so "wei3 qu4", then leave lor. But this woman also damn smart lah, she sure know how to plan for the future and safeguard herself. Having a house means that next time, if they ever got married and divorced, part of the property would go to her and she will still receive an alimony every month.
Seriously, although she told me so much and I dun think well of her, I have never breathed a word of all her bad habits and behaviour to my MIL. And even if I had done so, all of it would have been 100% true. But now, she turned and say such things about us? I ask you, if it were you, wouldn't you be angry?
I seriously dunno what my BIL sees in her. I m pretty sure it would not be difficult for him to get a better gal, maybe even a real factory worker would fare better than Apple in terms of ethics and morality. I really hate people who tell lies like this to malign people and make themselves look good. I seriously think she is nothing but a money-sucking bitch, who happens to be able to act very well and tell lies convincingly without even battling an eyelid or even affecting her conscience (cuz maybe she doesn't even have one!). She would probably fare very well as a professional swindler cuz she has all the needed criteria!!!
Mood: Angry, angry!!!
Heard from my SIL that my MIL related to her that Apple SAID that when I first went over to Vietnam, she COOKED for me EVERYDAY and because she did that, my BIL, seeing her so tired, cooking for us everyday, was kinda "tu lan" and told her not to cook for me (or us, i.e. my hubby & I) anymore. So she didn't cook for one day and Apple CLAIMED that on that particular day, when my hubby came home and realised that Apple didn't cook for me to eat, he threw a black face and was not happy about it!!!!
When I heard it, I almost couldn't believe my ears!!! I really cannot imagine how a person can weave such a story when NOT even ONE part of it is faintly true!!
Firstly, I remembered that my first trip to Vietnam after my no-pay leave took off was ONLY for about 2 weeks, then I came back to Singapore..to verify, you can actually check the dates of my posts in Apr & May period. And I remember distinctly that when I reached Vietnam... in fact, on that very afternoon when I reached the Vietnam home from the Airport, Apple was NOT at home. She was at the casino playing happily away. I m VERY SURE she did not cook that nite. And for the following 2 weeks, she was at the Casino almost everyday gambling away. She would wake up at noon or even later and proceed to the casino and she will stay there past dinner time. Cuz she claimed that there is free food there. Maybe, she did cook once or at most twice in that 2 weeks period, but I can tell you that I m very SURE it was not more than 2 times in the spade of 2 weeks I was there and let me CLARIFY..she did NOT cook specifically for me. She cooked for herself cuz she was hungry and asked me to join in..and I have never expected her to cook for Piggy or me. So if she was thinking that she was cooking for Piggy and me, that's all in her imagination. And just to emphasize, Piggy does not like the food she cooks and she herself clearly told me before that she thinks that Piggy does not like her cooking, cuz he always said he was going out for dinner with his friends whenever she cooked, which is not that often in the first place. So I can't imagine why she told my SIL that Piggy actually likes her food.
I really dunno what she is trying to do, try to create the image that she always cooks and I dun even know how to cook in front of my MIL? I really feel angry cuz what she said makes me look very stupid. As if, I dunno how to go out and buy food or ask the maid to buy for me or even cook maggi mee myself if I m hungry. I m not a 3-yr old kind, for goodness sake. Although I am not the type who has been cooking all my life, I dun think she should make me sound like I am so stupid or lazy or whatever to be waiting for her to cook for me and that I will go hungry if she does not cook for me. And tha FACT is she did NOT cook EVERYDAY for me. Somemore, Apple said that Piggy showed a black face. I really think she should stop assuming things and accusing people, cuz that incident which she related to my MIL did NOT happen at all, not even one bit and Piggy can testify to that!!!! I m truly amazed at and utterly disgusted with her story telling ability!
Although I never really thought well of her, at least Piggy & I never maligned her or told tales about her. And now that we did tell my SIL cuz we found out what she did, every word that we said is true. I really dunno why she is always bad mouthing others. I remembered once, she told me that my BIL said that she always bad mouths others. But then it's true what? If my SIL didn't tell me, I would still be in the dark. And if she can say such things about us, what other tales wouldn't she weave?
Somemore Apple told my MIL that she was a factory worker in Shenzhen before she met my BIL. My foot man!!! Piggy said "factory worker got smoke, have tatoo and go casino everyday one meh?" She clearly told me that she worked in a night club and smoked estacy and went clubbing very often when she was staying in Shenzhen. And just the other day, when she came over to our place, she pretended to talk about her days working at the hospital last time (just cuz my PILs were around) when she clearly told me before that it was her sister or god sister who was working at the hospital and she was glad that she hadn't taken her path, otherwise she would have ended up like her sister, earning S$200 a month!!!
And now, she wants to buy a house jointly with my BIL, claiming that she wants to chip in her money. But she where got money? Everytime, tell me that she didn't have a chance to save a single cent after meeting my BIL. If so "wei3 qu4", then leave lor. But this woman also damn smart lah, she sure know how to plan for the future and safeguard herself. Having a house means that next time, if they ever got married and divorced, part of the property would go to her and she will still receive an alimony every month.
Seriously, although she told me so much and I dun think well of her, I have never breathed a word of all her bad habits and behaviour to my MIL. And even if I had done so, all of it would have been 100% true. But now, she turned and say such things about us? I ask you, if it were you, wouldn't you be angry?
I seriously dunno what my BIL sees in her. I m pretty sure it would not be difficult for him to get a better gal, maybe even a real factory worker would fare better than Apple in terms of ethics and morality. I really hate people who tell lies like this to malign people and make themselves look good. I seriously think she is nothing but a money-sucking bitch, who happens to be able to act very well and tell lies convincingly without even battling an eyelid or even affecting her conscience (cuz maybe she doesn't even have one!). She would probably fare very well as a professional swindler cuz she has all the needed criteria!!!
Mood: Angry, angry!!!
Kimmie scribbles
11:50 pm |
Monday, October 09, 2006
$148,000 Watch???!!!
During dinner just now, my BIL jokingly asked my PILs to give him $100K cuz he said A asked him to buy her a watch which costs $148K!!! Then A was kinda shocked and embarrassed and quickly said something like "No lah, I didn't say I want, you make it sound as though I want to buy it" and I think she didn't seem too happy after that although she tried to behave normally. I was thinking, if you never say you wanted my BIL to buy for you, he wouldn't have joked about something like this too. Then, as if to prove her innocence, she told my MIL that the book which she saw the watch in, was bought by my BIL and not her. Luckily for her, Piggy was in the toilet. Otherwise, you can be sure, Piggy will say something like "Wow, $100K, can renovate my whole house, fully fitted with lights, furniture and fittings and maybe still got some money left!"
Really cannot stand people like this, like it then say lah, try so hard to preserve your image for what? If you are like this, sooner or later, people will also know what. Try so hard to pretend that you dun smoke when you smoke everyday in Vietnam? Guess it must be a torture for her to be constantly in fear of people finding out that she smokes. Scared that Piggy knows? Which in fact, Piggy does, but he doesn't care a damn! Although we dun really like her, we are not so despicable as to bad mouth her..just dun everytime infront of me, pretend to be so thrifty and down to earth, cuz you obviously are not! Everytime still tell me that my BIL spends alot and luckily got her to help him "shen3 chi1 jian3 yong4"!!! Pui!!! I really feel like throwing up, hearing her say this kind of thing about herself. No doubt, my BIL spends alot but well, he is spending his OWN money. She should learn to appreciate what she has and quit comparing herself to her other china friends, who have bfs to buy them lots of LV bags, etc. cuz she is considered to be living quite a good life liao, compared to alot of Singapore gals her age. And this is also taking into consideration the fact that she didnt have much education and cannot work to support herself. So to have someone who is willing to provide for all your needs, food, lodgings and money to spend, without needing you to work is already quite a luxury in itself.
And as I always say, if you choose to compare yourself to those who are better off, you will always seem much worse off, especially if you are the type who dunno how to appreciate what you have. But if you were to compare yourself to to those who are just normal people, you will feel very blessed indeed. Maybe she just doesn't know the value of money..which is really surprising, considering a person, who has been through a hard life and knows what it's like to have to earn money to support herself before.
Then some time recently, A suddenly wanted to learn english and learn driving, which she was never interested in before. Guess that must be after the big quarrel she had with my BIL and she was desperately trying to make amends in fear of my BIL dumping her for someone else. But anyway, she couldn't learn cuz she is on a tourist visa. Then when they patched up, she happily told me that my BIL promised to buy her a beetle if she learnt to drive. Then I was thinking, you think beetle very cheap, is it? Even my SIL, who has learnt to drive for so long, also said if she has a car to drive, she would be happy already. Then lately, she saw the brochure for this condo near our place, and she asked Piggy to talk to my BIL to ask him to buy the place. Wah lau, you are the one who likes the place, ask Piggy to talk to my BIL for what?!!! Then Piggy told her "I dun wanna be bad guy, if you want, you tell my brother yourself. Later, he thinks that his older brother ask him to spend money unnecessarily".
Another thing I cannot stand is the fact that she kept saying to me when I was in Vietnam last time: "Wow, you have alot of clothes and bags huh?" And as if to make a comparison, she said she didn't have much clothes. Wah lau, why do you wanna compare? Most of the things that I have, I bought with my own hard-earned money, not with other people's money. And anyway, I dun buy branded clothes. So although she has less clothes, the amount of money she had spent on them is probably enough to buy my whole wardrobe and more. And if you talk about bags, her one $1400 handbag alone is enough to buy all my bags, cuz my most expensive bag is only over $100 and I do buy bags which cost $10 or $20 if I like them. Besides, I work, so I feel justified in having a variety of bags to suit my needs.
Then that time, she somemore said she wanted to learn things, and my MIL suggested that she could learn facial, manicure and pedicure and could perhaps start her own business next time. I was thinking, this type of person only likes to be served, pampered and have a good life, you think she wants to serve people meh?
Somemore, A offered to take care of my baby when I have one next time. Piggy and I are strongly against it man, later our children grow up to be like her, then siao liao!! We would rather let our PILs or SIL take care. At least, we can be sure that our future children will be in good hands.
Anyway, hadn't meant to write so much, but sometimes talking about certain things just trigger you to think about other related things and one thing follows the next and before you know it, you have typed one whole long entry.
Really cannot stand people like this, like it then say lah, try so hard to preserve your image for what? If you are like this, sooner or later, people will also know what. Try so hard to pretend that you dun smoke when you smoke everyday in Vietnam? Guess it must be a torture for her to be constantly in fear of people finding out that she smokes. Scared that Piggy knows? Which in fact, Piggy does, but he doesn't care a damn! Although we dun really like her, we are not so despicable as to bad mouth her..just dun everytime infront of me, pretend to be so thrifty and down to earth, cuz you obviously are not! Everytime still tell me that my BIL spends alot and luckily got her to help him "shen3 chi1 jian3 yong4"!!! Pui!!! I really feel like throwing up, hearing her say this kind of thing about herself. No doubt, my BIL spends alot but well, he is spending his OWN money. She should learn to appreciate what she has and quit comparing herself to her other china friends, who have bfs to buy them lots of LV bags, etc. cuz she is considered to be living quite a good life liao, compared to alot of Singapore gals her age. And this is also taking into consideration the fact that she didnt have much education and cannot work to support herself. So to have someone who is willing to provide for all your needs, food, lodgings and money to spend, without needing you to work is already quite a luxury in itself.
And as I always say, if you choose to compare yourself to those who are better off, you will always seem much worse off, especially if you are the type who dunno how to appreciate what you have. But if you were to compare yourself to to those who are just normal people, you will feel very blessed indeed. Maybe she just doesn't know the value of money..which is really surprising, considering a person, who has been through a hard life and knows what it's like to have to earn money to support herself before.
Then some time recently, A suddenly wanted to learn english and learn driving, which she was never interested in before. Guess that must be after the big quarrel she had with my BIL and she was desperately trying to make amends in fear of my BIL dumping her for someone else. But anyway, she couldn't learn cuz she is on a tourist visa. Then when they patched up, she happily told me that my BIL promised to buy her a beetle if she learnt to drive. Then I was thinking, you think beetle very cheap, is it? Even my SIL, who has learnt to drive for so long, also said if she has a car to drive, she would be happy already. Then lately, she saw the brochure for this condo near our place, and she asked Piggy to talk to my BIL to ask him to buy the place. Wah lau, you are the one who likes the place, ask Piggy to talk to my BIL for what?!!! Then Piggy told her "I dun wanna be bad guy, if you want, you tell my brother yourself. Later, he thinks that his older brother ask him to spend money unnecessarily".
Another thing I cannot stand is the fact that she kept saying to me when I was in Vietnam last time: "Wow, you have alot of clothes and bags huh?" And as if to make a comparison, she said she didn't have much clothes. Wah lau, why do you wanna compare? Most of the things that I have, I bought with my own hard-earned money, not with other people's money. And anyway, I dun buy branded clothes. So although she has less clothes, the amount of money she had spent on them is probably enough to buy my whole wardrobe and more. And if you talk about bags, her one $1400 handbag alone is enough to buy all my bags, cuz my most expensive bag is only over $100 and I do buy bags which cost $10 or $20 if I like them. Besides, I work, so I feel justified in having a variety of bags to suit my needs.
Then that time, she somemore said she wanted to learn things, and my MIL suggested that she could learn facial, manicure and pedicure and could perhaps start her own business next time. I was thinking, this type of person only likes to be served, pampered and have a good life, you think she wants to serve people meh?
Somemore, A offered to take care of my baby when I have one next time. Piggy and I are strongly against it man, later our children grow up to be like her, then siao liao!! We would rather let our PILs or SIL take care. At least, we can be sure that our future children will be in good hands.
Anyway, hadn't meant to write so much, but sometimes talking about certain things just trigger you to think about other related things and one thing follows the next and before you know it, you have typed one whole long entry.
Kimmie scribbles
12:21 am |
Sunday, October 01, 2006
Can reading affect your mood?
It's funny how sometimes, reading people's blogs can affect how you feel, as in whether it uplifts you or whether it saddens you. I never really thought about such impacts on myself, cuz I have always thought whatever others write on their blogs is their own business and as a reader, I am just reading for entertainment. But it surprises me how some people's entries are so bright and cheerful while others sound almost melancholic. And how it sets me thinking after reading some of those melancholic entries. I was just thinking about my heck-care attitude back in my old job, where I had to serve angry customers. I never gave a damn how those angry people affected me, as in when I go home after work, I plain forget about them and the next morning, everything is back to normal. Of course, there were times when I was damn fed up and angry with those stupid complainants and rambled endless complaints to my hubby. But I guess I m one person, who feels much better after ranting something off. I dun really like to keep things hidden in my chest.
Was just thinking that perhaps sometimes I m reading entries by people I know, who are my friends, whereas those angry complainants were not related to me in any ways, so I dun feel as much for them.
But it also surprises me how sometimes, I can be unduly affected by a book I m reading. As in, if the story is very sad, I may even be moved to tears, although I know jolly well that it's just a fictitious story. Maybe, it's the way the story is written...
Was just thinking that perhaps sometimes I m reading entries by people I know, who are my friends, whereas those angry complainants were not related to me in any ways, so I dun feel as much for them.
But it also surprises me how sometimes, I can be unduly affected by a book I m reading. As in, if the story is very sad, I may even be moved to tears, although I know jolly well that it's just a fictitious story. Maybe, it's the way the story is written...
Kimmie scribbles
10:18 pm |