Sunday, October 09, 2005
Had a Great Time!
Had a Great Time!
Met up with WJ, Cyn, Eve & Dave today at Bansbury to celebrate Cyn's Birthday! Haven't been there for ages...we were surprised that the place was so quiet on a Sunday afternoon...then we realised why....there was only 1 waitress taking orders for the entire restaurant!! And we thought she was pretty "poor thing", having to run here and there to tend to customers' needs.... so, naturally our food took a really long time to come..but well, it was might as well, cuz we, early birds had to wait for the latecomers as usual! heehee...Dave was the earliest followed by Cyn & I. Haha..I actually told Cyn as we were walking towards our meeting place that I believed that the 3 of us (including Dave) would be the earliest and all the rest would be late and she agreed with me! Haha..looks like we really understood our friends very well! There were supposed to be more of us gathering today, however HP & CC had something on last minute and ST couldn't come so there were only the 5 of us. But well, we had a great time, chatting & catching up and teasing Dave. As usual, he was the object of our teasing..haha..but then can't blame us lah, cuz he is always so enthusiastic in asking us to introduce gals to him and yet his standards are so high that we don't dare to introduce anyone to him. Want to know why? Cuz to him, some of those Japanese actresses who looked gorgeous to us gals are only "decent-looking" to him...so what happens to the rest of us man? Haha...so you get an idea of his definition of "really pretty"? Haha..
After our gathering, all of us went back cuz most had something on after that. Then I was chatting with Cyn on the way back and she was telling me about this guy friend of hers who has a girlfriend but once when this guy went clubbing with them (without his girlfriend), he brought another gal along and they were dancing together in quite an intimate manner, hugging each other and all. (To be exact, the gal hugged him 1st then he hugged back.) So naturally, they were quite angry with him, thinking how he could do this to his girlfriend. But sometime later, Cyn saw this guy & his girlfriend still together. So guess the girlfriend probably knew nothing of his "rendevous escapade". Honestly, hearing such things makes me feel very sorry for the girlfriend and also makes me wonder how far you can go about trusting someone sometimes. No doubt in this case, the guy wasn't the one who initiated it (but the bitchy gal) but then I would think the guy should have the good sense to know what's within limits and what's out of limits. Personally, fidelity is something I stand strongly by and I would expect that from my other half as well. And by fidelity, I dun mean it as in "so long as you dun DO IT with another person" but in addition to that, also respecting your other half totally and not doing anything you think your other half wouldn't like or something which you wouldn't want your other half to do to you as well. So, to me, fidelity also means being able to restrain yourself from flirting or fooling around (even if you are not serious about it as in Cyn's friend's case) cuz I feel that to do such things behind the other party's back is as good as cheating and being infidel to him/ her!! And I guess maybe this guy friend of hers could get away with it by keeping mum or telling a lie but wouldn't it be against his conscience to be untruthful??
After our gathering, all of us went back cuz most had something on after that. Then I was chatting with Cyn on the way back and she was telling me about this guy friend of hers who has a girlfriend but once when this guy went clubbing with them (without his girlfriend), he brought another gal along and they were dancing together in quite an intimate manner, hugging each other and all. (To be exact, the gal hugged him 1st then he hugged back.) So naturally, they were quite angry with him, thinking how he could do this to his girlfriend. But sometime later, Cyn saw this guy & his girlfriend still together. So guess the girlfriend probably knew nothing of his "rendevous escapade". Honestly, hearing such things makes me feel very sorry for the girlfriend and also makes me wonder how far you can go about trusting someone sometimes. No doubt in this case, the guy wasn't the one who initiated it (but the bitchy gal) but then I would think the guy should have the good sense to know what's within limits and what's out of limits. Personally, fidelity is something I stand strongly by and I would expect that from my other half as well. And by fidelity, I dun mean it as in "so long as you dun DO IT with another person" but in addition to that, also respecting your other half totally and not doing anything you think your other half wouldn't like or something which you wouldn't want your other half to do to you as well. So, to me, fidelity also means being able to restrain yourself from flirting or fooling around (even if you are not serious about it as in Cyn's friend's case) cuz I feel that to do such things behind the other party's back is as good as cheating and being infidel to him/ her!! And I guess maybe this guy friend of hers could get away with it by keeping mum or telling a lie but wouldn't it be against his conscience to be untruthful??
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